Explore the top games and activities to boost communication, intimacy, and fun in your relationship. Upvote your favorites or discover something new!
A playful, private, and insightful quiz for couples to discover shared desires and improve communication. 100% free, totally anonymous, and made with love.
A set of 36 questions designed to foster closeness and vulnerability. Great for deep conversations.
A card game with thought-provoking questions to spark meaningful conversations between partners.
Research-based activities and games from the Gottman Institute to strengthen communication and connection.
Write your own questions or prompts on slips of paper, put them in a jar, and take turns drawing and answering them together.
A free app for couples to share daily feelings, needs, and appreciation—great for ongoing communication.
Share a new question or story with each other every night before bed.
One partner shares a thought or feeling, the other repeats it back in their own words to ensure understanding.
Take turns sharing something important while your partner listens without interrupting, then summarizes what they heard.
Each partner gives the other three genuine compliments. Try to make them as specific as possible!
Create a vision board together of your shared dreams and goals, then discuss each one.
Share your top 5 personal values and discuss how they influence your relationship.
Write down 10 things you want to do together and talk about why each is important to you.
Share your favorite memories together and what made them special.
Take turns sharing things you appreciate about each other, big or small.
Describe your dream date night and plan how to make it happen together.
For a day, swap roles and responsibilities to better understand each other's daily experiences.
Create a cube with different questions on each side. Roll it and answer whatever comes up!
Tell a story about your relationship using only emojis, then explain it to each other.
Communicate a message or feeling using only body language and have your partner guess what it is.
Invent secret code words or signals for private communication in public.
Swap stories from your childhood or early relationship and see what you learn about each other.
Draw a picture of each other or your relationship—no artistic skill required!
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Effective communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Whether you're newly dating or have been together for years, learning to express your needs, listen actively, and resolve conflicts can transform your connection. Below you'll find expert tips, answers to common questions, and resources to help you and your partner grow closer.
Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to recognize, understand, and manage your own emotions and those of your partner. High EQ couples are better at navigating challenges, expressing affection, and supporting each other through ups and downs.
What are the best communication games for couples?
Some of the best games include The Couple's Sex Quiz, NYT 36 Questions, TableTopics, and DIY Icebreakers. See the full list above for more ideas!
How do I start a conversation about difficult topics?
Pick a calm time, use "I" statements, and focus on your feelings and needs. Listen actively and avoid blame.
Can games really improve our relationship?
Yes! Games create a safe, playful space to open up, learn about each other, and build trust and intimacy.
Where can I find more resources?
Check out books like "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman, or visit sites like The Gottman Institute and Love is Respect.