How to Find Out What Your Partner Wants in Bed

Discover actionable ways to uncover your partner's true desires and create a more satisfying sex life together. Includes tips, scripts, and a quiz.

Why This Matters

Understanding your partner's desires is key to a fulfilling relationship. Yet, many couples struggle to talk openly about what they want in bed. Here's how to break the ice and start a new chapter of intimacy.

Actionable Tips

• Start with curiosity, not assumptions. Ask open-ended questions about what feels good for them.
• Use a fun quiz (like The Couple's Sex Quiz) to spark conversation.
• Share your own desires first to create a safe space for honesty.
• Listen without judgment and thank your partner for sharing.

Sample Conversation Starter

"Is there anything you've always wanted to try, but haven't told me yet?"

Remember, the goal is to grow together and make intimacy a team adventure. For more ideas, try our Best Conversation Starters (Sex).