How to Talk About Sex Without Awkwardness

Practical advice for making sex talks feel natural, safe, and even fun. Includes conversation starters and expert tips.

Why Sex Talks Feel Awkward

Many couples avoid talking about sex because they fear embarrassment, rejection, or hurting their partner's feelings. But open communication is the key to a satisfying sex life.

Tips for Natural, Safe Conversations

• Pick a relaxed, private time to talk—outside the bedroom can be best.
• Start with positives: share what you love about your sex life first.
• Use "I" statements to express your feelings and desires.
• Be curious and ask your partner about their experiences and wishes.
• Keep a sense of humor—laughter can ease tension!

Conversation Starters

• "What's something you enjoy that we don't do often enough?"
• "Is there anything you'd like to try together?"
• "How do you feel most loved and desired?"

Remember, the goal is to connect and grow together. For more ideas, check out our Best Conversation Starters (Sex) page.